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Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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The guy that I think is "the one" is moving 1,959 miles away from me and I having a hard time imagining life without him, sure we tease each other but it will never be the same without him. Also I don't know whether to tell him if I love him so much that I can't live without him or wait to see what happens. He is also my best guy friend and we have a very strong friendship. We talk to each other about everything and I really need some advice before I get too depressed. Please anyone? :'(

You may be surprised to find out how he feels. But if he truly has no feelings it's best to maintain your friendship visit when you can but live it up now. Meet new people enjoy your life, discover new things. Trust me- right now is the time of your life. You don't want to look back regreting the time you wasted stressing over someone 1,959 miles away. I know it hurts right now; but let me share a story with you. Ok, I was three month pregnant living with my fiance planning my wedding when out of the blue he left me never to return never to see him again. I thought my life was over but look at me now. I'm happily married and thank the Lord everyday that he saw fit for this other guy to disapear out of my life and brought me the real love of my life. Basically I was a wreck. Crying non stop for a couple weeks but the pain faded and fast. I know you probably can't sleep, eat or get your mind to stop thinking about this but I promise you with time you will be ok. I PROMISE. Before you know it a year will have passed and you'll be doing your own thing.

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(Rating: 5) Did I mention he has no feelings for me?
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