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Last Friday I went to a party and met this boy. From the moment we met we really clicked. He was showing me off to all of his friends and kind of overdoing it with the compliments. I am not sure if it's part of his game or he really meant it. Anyway we ended up sleeping at the party together. I barely got any sleep because we were talking and kissing all night. He attempted more and would apologize when I rejected him yet still attempted more once a decent amount of time had went by. He was somewhat cocky about himself stating how I definitely wanted him and whatnot which made me want him even less. After our night of kind of cute fun he took me home. He has been trying to hang out since but I am not sure if it's a good idea. I really clicked with him and he said we clicked but then again, he seemed to be using every line in the book. I guess what I'm trying to say is being the messed up girl I am the lines got me along with his good looks and I'm wondering what to do. Should I give him a chance? Or should I just write him off as a player and ignore his texts from now on?
Well its your judgement. If you're second-guessing him right now.. imagine how you'll feel if you guys started dating..
If you want my opinion (I have a lot of experience in the guy department but I have good morals and don't just screw around with guys)- then I suggest you stay away from him. I read this question and immediately I had a gut instinct that this guy just wants some.. meaning he doesn't care about you. All he wants is to get in your pants. unless you're "into" that kind of thing- i would stay away from him. You denied him when he was trying to go further with you, but he insisted to keep trying and kept trying to pressure you and kept trying to do more.. thats a red flag right there.. That pretty much just sums him up.. he's a player. He doesn't care how you feel. Bottom line- you felt uncomfortable with the situation but he didn't care how you felt, all he wanted was to get in your pants. which is not a good quality in a guy, especially if you're looking for something serious.
another red flag- you could tell he is cocky. How long did you actually know him, before you realized he was cocky? a few minutes?? If you can tell he's cocky that soon, then he is a true player and has a large ego.
Plain and simply said.. stay away from him.
I understand that you might want to be with a "bad guy". Trust me i've felt the same way. My dream guy is to have tattoos and have the "bad-ass" vibe.. but this guy is just begging for some attention in all the wrong ways. I really don't think you should spend more time with him, unless you're ready for some heartbreak.
Its up to you hon. Good luck.
(Rating: 5) Seriously, thank you so much. You really made me realize he's definitely not worth my time. My friends are all just being nice, it's nice that you were actually real and straight up about it. Thank you. You saved me from a waste of time and some definite heartbreak.