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I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!

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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this? (link)
well you see since both of your relationships didn't work our recently you both are looking for a rebound and i'm sure you felt like you needed somebody to help you through your hard time so you kissed him its a natural reaction really don't worry about it, i'm sure he didn't tell anybody i mean why would he? its a two way thing you should definately speak to him and tell him what i'm telling you, that you just needed somebody and all you want from him is friendship if you tell him this then nothing will change just let him know that it was mistake, and please don't feel disgusted sweetheart as i said it was a natural reaction and you have nothing to be ashamed of , it was one meaningless kiss

best of luck


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