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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this? (link)
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Hey, Thinks for asking me this!(: Actualy I had something like similar to this happen to me so I am sure I can help(: ok so to start off you said you ended up kissing, I think it was just like rush of the moment, like You are friends, and you and him both had the same thing happen like you and your bf broke up and him and his gf broke up and I think it was because ya'll both had this happen you know like when you brake up with someone after the sadness (if there is) is over then you feel kinda free and extra flirty and open well I think thats how ya'll both felt so it led up to doing what you did. Like you knew you didn't have feelings for each other but your body or mind just did what it wanted. Kinda like a rebound romance except you yourself didn't intend to do it. It just happened. Also it's normal to feel weird about it but it's ok everyone makes mistakes. Now you said you where scared he would tell someone well I am for sure that he woun't because it takes TWO to kiss and if you kissed him he kissed you. You said ya'll both feel the same way so he is most likely in the same place is you feeling disgusted and probaly thinking I hope she don't tell. Like he isn't going to go off to all his friends adn do that. Now maybe if you came up to him and kissed him on the lips and he didn't kiss back or just kinda sat there ya know lol we'll then ya I can see him telling his friends then, but no not in this situation! and last you said do you think things will change. Well I honestly hope not, it may be a little akward at first but if not jump right in and act like nothing ever happened, and if it is a little akward at first make small talk and buid your conversations back up it would prob only take a week at the most. I think things should be fine just make small talk (if needed. Well I hope I helped! Thanks for asking me this(: If you need anything else or anymore help imbox me Good Luck(:
xoxo Madison!
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