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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?
Hey,
I want you to relax. You say this guy is a friend of yours and that you two are in similar situations as far as your ex-relationships go, so more than likely, he'll understand. From what you've told me, I don't see why he would run around telling people. The best thing you could do would be to see where his head is. Make sure he's on the same page as you. Find out what he thinks of the incident. Then, tell him how you're feeling. Tell him you're probably vulnerable right now because of your recent break-up and that you don't want what happened between you two to harm you all's friendship. Also, tell him you don't want him to think you're ready to be anything more than friends. Don't feel disgusted with yourself. Like I said, you're probably just feeling vulnerable right now, but it will pass. Just be careful not to sink into your own vulnerability and disappoint yourself. I doubt your friend is going to tell anyone. Keep me updated.
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thanks :)
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