Hello, call me Abby =] I'm eighteen and a senior in high school this year. I've always had great advice, I'm just not so great at following it =P Feel free to ask me anything, I'll do my best to give you an answer.
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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this? (link)
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I wouldn't feel too guiltly about this. Both of you feel the same way and are in similar situations, so you connected by talking. You both know that the kiss was just your way of trying to distract yourselves from your break ups, and that it was a test or a rebound. You are both single, you have nothing to be ashamed of.
I doubt he will tell anyone because if he wants a chance with his ex he won't want her to know, and it sounds like he respects you. It may be awkward between you two, but you can always try to talk to him and explain yourself.
I would just try to move on with your life, and not worry about it too much. It was just a kiss.
Good luck,
-Abby
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