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16/F A few days ago I had sex with a family friend. It was my first time ever having sex- not that that matters. He has been a family friend since was like 4. I know it's not exactly right but we both like each other so much and have good chemistry. He really cares about him hurting me during sex and also regrets not waiting till I'm 18, but now that we've done it, we don't want to stop. The other night was amazing and we both want to keep this up but without anyone finding out. I don't want to end this one bit but in the back of my mind I'm afraid of getting caught. But all I can think about is enjoying myself. What should I do? (link)
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The first thing you need to do is get on birth control. Condoms can break and so aren't 100%. If you don't want to talk to your parents or your doctor about it, call Planned Parenthood and see if they can help you.
Okay, having said that, you aren't related to the family friend you are now having a relationship with. So not a big deal. The guy sounds considerate.
Now you might get caught, but it would be delusional on the part of your parents to not think the friend might not be interested in you at some point. I mean, come on, let's get real. You guys aren't doing anything ethically wrong. The only problem that may arise out of this is if he is an adult, then the police could get involved, depending on what the laws of the state you reside in are. This isn't your fault or your boyfriend's (as long as he isn't an adult), but that of a crazy little thing called love, as the song says.
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