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20/f. So, during the spring, I was taking this science class, which I heard was suppose to be easy. It turned out everyone did REALLY bad because the teacher was terrible. We all picked a bad teacher. It happens. I got a D-! I am a smart girl with a high GPA and I cannot bear to see that D-. So, I can take it again, get a higher grade, and have that "forgiven," as the policy in my university states. If I do, I am certain that I will get an A, with whomever I take it with, as long as it's not this guy. His questions were tricky. I didn't learn anything. And I would like to keep my GPA high for scholarships and awards. Also, I am going into my third year now. This class was a pre-requisite class, so it's not like I need it for my major. I am also planning on applying to grad school, so it's just good to have my numbers high.

So, during the spring I started studying with a guy who was in my class. I started to understand things a little better when I had a friend to study with. But, after a couple of study sessions, he whipped out his penis in the library. It made me EXTREMELY uncomfortable, needless to say. They are offering the course this summer at my school. After that incident, the guy tried calling me and adding me on facebook. I guess he doesn't understand how disgusted and scared I am. My mom came to pick me up at school the other day because she was using my car, and saw him wandering. I'm a little bit scared and I think he's going to take the summer B class because he actually DOES need this class for his major. i don't want to take a class with him. I'm a little scared after that and I don't want him to be in a class with him.

Please help! What should I do?!?!?! (link)
Report this guy to your advisor or the class teacher. You should have done that right away. Exposing yourself in public is illegal and is usually the sign of a sick person. Don't let this go. Tell the teacher or your adviser you want to take the class again,but can't if this guy is in it, because of what happens. See what happens from there.


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you are so right. i should not let him paralyze my life. i was so afriaid to report him because the worst they could do is give him a fine or something. he didn't rape me, so their not going to take him to prison. and i thought his revenge might be worst. but, you are right. i must live my life and he does it again, i will not hesiate to report. thanks for your answer.. you were a great help! xoxo




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