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Q: Okay, so my ex dumped me six months ago now, and got back with his ex the day after.
He split up with her two months ago now, and we've just left school.
On the last day, he gave me an apology letter, saying he didn't realise what he had untill it was too late, and that he hopes i'll have a good life, and that he'll never forget me.
But even after everything-i want him back. So what kinda things can i put in a letter, to get him back? Thanks
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Dear Want to get back together with a letter,
It is 100% normal for someone to want to get back with their ex, even in spite of what that person has done to you. But you really need to look at the facts here; he got back with his ex the day after he broke it off with you.
Initially that states that this was something planned for God only knows how long before he actually went through with the break up. I understand wanting him back, feeling those old feelings again but you need to ask yourself this, "Don't I deserve better?" in my opinion, of course you do!
Yeah, you could get back with him and things could go back to their normal settings but as a human being, in the back of your mind the fear of him doing this again to you is going to kick in at some point and cause future problems.
When it comes to matters of the heart; you've pretty much already made up your mind of what you want to do, in fact, you've probably already written the letter right?
No one can tell you what to put in this letter because at that point it's lost it's authenticity. They wouldn't be your ideas or feelings. So with that said, write what you truly feel, not what someone else tells you to write NOR what you think your ex would want to hear. Don't be afraid to tell him just how much he hurt you.
Good Luck,
Braylen
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Thanks this was really helpful and constructive advice :) I guess it let me look at this relationship with a more realistic view-which is what i needed so thanks!
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Hey there!
Well, as you may have guessed I am an aspiring advice columnist. I honestly care about the problems/questions/ and/or concerns you may have. Although only 22 years old I have been through a lot when it comes to the dating game. So rather you are wondering how to ask him/her out, need to some advice over a bad break up or ANYTHING related to the love/dating/relationship category by all means let me know! Anyone is welcome to send in your requests and I will answer to the best of my ability. And just remember guys, this is my opinion, my advice in the end it is your decision as to you take it or not!
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E-mail: Gender: Male Member Since: May 31, 2011 Answers: 12 Last Update: June 6, 2011 Visitors: 2133
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