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i've been with this guy for about a year and i just have thoughts to break up with him but then they pass then the next few days they come back. he really irritates me now for like no reason but i hide it. i know if i dump him im gonna probably still want him but i just dont even know what i want. im really busy lately and i dont know if hes even worth stayin with even though i thought he was perfect for me. (link)
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One way to look at this is that you are under stress and then when your boyfriend comes along and demands some of your time, too, it becomes like the straw that broke the camel's back.
Now there are two options here:
1. Just to offload some stress, you can simplify your life and dump him, which will leave you more "me time" to relax and do what you want to do without having to worry about anyone else's considerations.
2. You can keep the relationship, but find a way to better compartmentalize how you view your life. In other words, you have to be better about scheduling the time he needs with you to feel part of the relationship while being able to leave what ever is making you busy behind once you are done with that for the day.
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thanks...i do love him but i'm just super stressed and i guess i feel like this cause he's the only part of my life i can just leave.
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