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Ok about 2 weeks ago fromboyfriend returned from Canada where has been working from time to time for his job. He travels thru different states as well but not too far from PA. I gave him head the night he returned and as of las Thursday May 12th I started breaking out with sores in my mouth. He claims he is not cheating and understands where they could of came from (sexually transmitted), but I also read that he just could be a carrier of the Virus1 as well. How do I know if he is or isn't cheating by the sores in my mouth? And he is also on Gmail alot and says he only uses it for bills or reservations for hotels he stays at for work. Funny when I have the same and on the chat as well and can tell when he is on and so is his video as well. And gets all annoyed when I ask him to go chat video or chat with me and says he doesn't like using it all the time only when he is in Canada for sake of rates on the phone and only if he has real bad signals in hotels for his cell. But yet if I see he is available he gets very annoyed with me about it. What do I do?
EEV, PA (link)
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stop having unprotected sex with him immediately and both of you get tested. Even if he is just a carrier (and not a cheater) you both need to know if you are clean. While you're there you can ask the doctor for yourself if herpes can be transmitted any other way than sexual contact. Be smart.
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We have been seeing each other for 9 months now and I sam almost 50 and he is 42. He just got divorced recentlty, but was seeing someone before we ever met. But we have been seeing each other since August. It worries me about the cheating and he knows it too. I have been cheated on before twice. He did cheat on his ex 11 yrs ago and it was a one time deal too. They were married almost 20 yrs before the divorce. Sorry but I would have too on her, she really was and still is a chapter in a half with a few pages missing. He has an appt on Monday and I am still trying to contact my Dr, they are having phone problems.
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