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E-mail: christyjonescleckler@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama
Age: 28
Member Since: May 10, 2011
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Okay, so i've liked this guy for like legit 3 years. I'm a freshman in high school and he's a sophomore. He's mad popular and really good at sports. He's known that i've liked him ever since he's been in 8th grade and i've been in 7th grade. I like him a lot, and i want him more than anything. And i really wanna get to know this kid, but i'm afraid to say hey to him, or even smile at him. He looks at me constantly, and so do his friends. Sometimes he can't even look away from me, and he gives me mixed signals and looks. What do i do, do i say hi? or no? I'm friends with him on Facebook and whenever he's online i always stare at the screen waiting for him to chat or message me, but he never does. I don't wanna waste my time on him for the rest of my life, i think i may be falling in love with this kid, and i don't even know him. And i see him everywhere. I'm like obsessed, and i don't know why. God gives me tons of signals everyday, but i just am too scared. Is he waiting for me to say hey, or talk to him first? Why would he be waiting for me? he seems like the kind of guy that would never like me, but everyone knows that i like him, even his brother gives me looks. All the girls think he's like mad cute and hot, and he is, but then again other people say he's a tool and such. I just don't wanna believe them. Please help.
sincerely,
a girl who needs answers. (link)
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I had a similar crush in school and i did the SAME thing your doing. Always looking at him, i even wrote him a 4 page letter, put it in his locker, but didnt put my name on it. He never knew it was me, but to THIS DAY i regret not talking to him and putting myself out there, because i will never know what COULD'VE happened because of that. So, as scared as you are, just DO IT! Talk to him, message him on facebook. Whatever you want to do. Take a chance sweetie and do it. If you don't, you will regret it, like me. -Christy
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awhh, thank you soo much Christy! I think i am going too! :)
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