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He is married with 3kids and he is having problem with his wife but wants me and i love him what should i do? (link)
Yuk. You must really not think much of yourself to be so desperate as to be with a married man with a family. Someday, when you have a family of your own, you'll understand how awful this situation truly is. He's not going to leave her. He's a father. Marriage is about more than love, believe it or not. Go your own way. Instead of asking what you can do to make him love you more (Horrible question, btw, you can't MAKE people love you) you need to ask yourself why you have such low self-esteem that you would fall for a man who is not available to you. Do the hard thing and walk away. Be brave, for once. Do the right thing. There may be someone out there who is just right for you but you are missing him because you're spending so much energy on this unavailable cheater.


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U r truly right i so understand where u coming from u r right thnx for ur opinion the.prob is im.not trying to.seperate noone it is.awful i don't mean no harm it is too much




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