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okay, so im 16/f, my bf/15 of over seven months just broke up with me. he broke up with me a week before my birthday(which was like 4 days ago, and ill be 17) through a text message in my first period class. i had wanted to break up with him before like 4 times but stuck it through bc he begged me, i didnt want to hurt him, and i wanted to work it out as well. SO i begged him not to break up with me, i asked him to give it a week and if he felt the same then i would break up with him. he gave it over night. i gave him four chances and he didnt even give me one. he's such a jerk. it was hard on me, i cried the whole week. well, now im mad. so ive got a mission to make him want me. im going to make him miss me and beg to get back together so that i can say 'im sorry, you broke up with me. i just cant do that.' phase one of the mission is complete:aka:knowing he actually cares. i deleted all pics of us on facebook, put a status that said had a great day and cant wait for the weekend up (so itll make him wonder) and today i sat at lunch with a hot guy (my ex and i have the same lunch together at school...and the hot guy is just a friend) well the hot guy knows the situation(he has a gf) and will talk and touch my shoulder or something to provoke my ex if hes looking. well it worked! at lunch my ex kept walking up and down the lunchroom, he pretended to pay for extra lunch, kept looking at us the whole time. it was GREAT. now i dont know what im supposed to do. do i keep doing what im doing now? do something different? and if i do something different, what would that be and when am i supposed to do it? how do i make him want to talk to me? (because we havent spoken since the breakup and im giving him the space he wants so im just going to wait for him to make the first move). what do i do next? PLEASE help me, as MANY suggestions as possible, good advice, i need it. and i WILL Rate :) (link)
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You're psycho.
Listen, you have to learn to let go. You weren't going to marry this guy. It is just a high school romance. Yeah, it seems like a big deal now, but after you grow up you will barely be able to recall it.
Every relationship has an expiration date attached to it. Sometimes it's six weeks other times it's 60 years. You just have to roll with the changes and try to learn from it. But seeking some kind of small minded payback is totally counterproductive, not to mention a big waste of time and energy.
You're almost an adult. Start acting like it.
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so, i was mad, yes i wanted to make him jelous. took me a little while to get over it. yes im almost an aduilt. of course i wanted payback, i felt betrayed. no i didnt think we were going to last and get married? i never even said anything like that? and yes i know its only a highschool romance. now FIRST i dont need you to call me a psycho. i wanted advice, not someone to tell me off. i just needed a little time to get over it, which i am now.
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