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My girlfriend and I have known each other for 6 years been dating for 2 years. She loves to dress and look good she is very beautiful and has an awesome body. No matter what she wears she has guys always trying to flirt with her or start dumb conversations. But when she's just going to the mall or to the grocery store the flea market she may wear tight jeans and high heels that makes it irresistible for most men to not look at or come and try to make contact with her. Well my point is it drives me crazy especially when she dresses like that and goes without me, and I've expressed my feelings about it to her. It's nothing slutty she wears it’s just the attention it brings to her and I feel she's looking for the attention sometimes by dressing that way! She is 40 years old and gets attention from guys 16 to 100! I've walked to other parts of a store and returned to guys walking behind her staring at her butt or trying or talk to her. I guess my question is. Am I just jealous and have nothing to worry about or is she looking for the attention, or am I wrong about both? (link)
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Fantastic answer Rahzie, I would just like to add one thing.
Many men pick a woman for who they are and they love this, the way they look, the way they act and how confident they are and once they are settled into a relationship the very things that attracted them in the first place start to worry them because they know that others are attracted to them too.
Just remember SHE picked YOU, not some other guy who was attracted to her and if she has so far been loyal to you, they you are doing her a disservice to think that she may cheat in the future.
If she changes for you because she realises that you now don't like the way she is, she will become unhappy and she will no longer be the woman you fell in love with.
Treasure what you have and instead walk tall and remember she's YOUR girl, you should be proud that others fancy her, she walks past them but she chose you.
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Thank you very much. I truely take this advise to my heart! And my girlfriend says that all the advise given by everyone is absolutly wonderful!
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