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So... I have known this guy for about three years. I have always had a crush on him, but was too shy to tell him. I hadn't seen him in a few months, and I basically stopped having a crush on him. But he is my friend on Facebook. Today, He posted on my wall 'You look like Kate Hudson.' I replied back, 'thanks, she is beautiful' then he posted, 'I know beautiful like you.' Of course I smiled and I kind of started to crush on him again. So he began sending me private messages. He was calling me sweetheart, saying he was going to see me, and also said he has always liked me. I told him that I used to have a crush on him too. He said, 'Why didn't you tell me? I would of asked you out.' Well, a little later while we were talking, he kept bringing us up. Saying stuff like, 'When we are both single we should go out' or 'I wish we was together.' Here is the problem... : He has a girlfriend. I feel bad because he has a GF and he is talking to me like this. I'm the type of person who believes you can cheat with words. I want to tell her, but it isn't my business and I don't even know her. Even though what he says makes me smile and feel warm inside, I wouldn't want to be with someone who would possibly talk to other girls in that way behind my back. So what I need is someones opinion. Do you think I should tell the GF and if they do break up, do you think it would be smart to go with him? By The Way, he is about to turn 17. (link)
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I'm really not sure if you should tell the girlfriend. I mean it is wrong but I'm not sure if it is your place to tell her.
If they do end up breaking up eventually, I don't think it would be a smart idea to go out with him. You might not trust him completely. You might end up having the feeling that he might be talking to other girls while he is with you right?
Even if he doesn't, you'll probably be thinking about it when something goes wrong.
Flirting is fine but he does have a girlfriend. It just wouldn't be smart to date him. I'm sure there are better guys out there.
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