I am a wife and a mother of three grown sons. I live in New York and am an equestrian. Most of my free time is spent riding and caring for my horses now that my sons are out of the house.
I give down to earth advice, as I tell it like I see it...and I've seen alot.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Member Since: January 17, 2009
Answers: 281
Last Update: September 11, 2011
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I knew this guy(we'll call him Jake) for over a year. We had a off and on relationship. We fought alot but always got over it. He dated other girls and I dated other guys. When we weren't together he didn't push a relationship and I didn't either. He was one of my best friends.
I knew he really loved me, I just didn't do anything about it. So anyways, last August one of of my really good friends got us together and I fell haard for Jake.
We broke up about a month later, him claiming I had changed. We've barely talked and then Jake and one of my other friends got into a fight.
We haven't talked since then and its been about 6 months. I don't miss him as a boyfriend. I just miss my bestfriend so much.
Can anyone tell me what I should do? Please?
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You could call him and explain how you feel. He will either accept or reject your offer to resume the relationship. You don't say how old you are. People DO change as they mature. It's a normal part of life, including personality change. If you don't change, then you've got a problem. He sounds like he wants your personality to remain status quo, but things can never remain status quo in life and those who cannot adjust are left behind. You can only reach out and see if he accepts it. If not, you need to move on in life knowing you gave him a chance to remain good friends. Some people want to remain 16 forever. Not pretty when your 50.
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Thank you so very much. You've been a lot of help.
I will defiantly contact him this weekend.
And i didn't post my age(16) because most people dismiss teenagers of not understanding love. But I do. And I'm not just saying that.
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