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So i posted a few questions about my friend who is self righteous with her religion and now my friend who posted the stuff about me on facebook calls herself a christian. And ever since she's become one she bugs me about it. Since she couldn't change my religion she tried changing the way i look, she couldn't do that so now when we hangout she seems distant because she can't change me. not only that uses me and makes me come to her house all the time, and made it public on facebook about how my bad my driving is, so i finally took action and deleted her and the other girl from my facebook. Well anyways she called me and asked me if i wanted to hangout with her. I said i couldn't and she asked me why and i told her i was at a friend's house. She said oh cool well maybe we can just hang out later. I said no, and she goes why? I told her this: Because you post embarrassing things about me on facebook after i drove you around. And she of course acts like she did nothing wrong and says are you being serious right now? and i said yeah and she said okay i'll talk to you later, and i said okay bye. Then i got on facebook and she added me again, but i denied her friend request and clicked on the thing that said she wouldn't be able to send me anymore friend requests. So what i want to know is am i doing the right thing, because she obviously thinks she can act like a brat and get a way with it, and that just doesn't fly with me. And i don't get where this whole thing about me being a bad driver is coming from. When i was driving i wasn't speeding, even though i said that because they thought i was. They were distracting me, and my friend who was sitting at the front freaked out when i didn't brake, was talking really loud, and rolled down the windows and started yelling when she saw someone she knew. and then the other one was opening the door while i was driving. So yeah what should i do if the friend who called me to hangout starts asking me why i am mad at her, and why i am making a big deal out of this. I know i am not the greatest driver ever but i don't need her telling everyone that on facebook, especially after i drove their ungrateful selves around town. (link)
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she's not the greatest friend but i think you're overreacting. so what if you're friends on facebook? doesnt mean that you see her every day. plus, it's better cos who knows what she posts about you on facebook when you cant see it (because you're not friends). and what do you worry so much about what she wrote? if you dont take it seriously, it wont hurt you. or you can actually acknowledge it and be like 'uuurgh, im a bad driver so i better not give you rides anymore'. save you the trouble of being used by her and making her know that you guys are just acquaintances, but no hard feelings.
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thanks i don't think i am over reacting, because she thinks it's all about her, and expects me to drive her around everywhere. i deleted her from facebook because she's fake and will probably post things about me again. i don't care if she does, because she has no life, and doesn't appreciate things i do for her, and acts like a brat. She felt the need to bad mouth me and make it known publicly twice instead of coming to me. It's not just the facebook posts, she criticizes me for everything, like my shoes and clothes, and my eyebrows when were at the gym and then expected me to buy her a drink at the cafe, and when i didn't she threw a big hissy fit, and then calls her my friend and a Christian. So i appreciate your advice but i feel like i need to stand my ground otherwise if i don't she'll keep using me.
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