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hello! ive lived a lot of life in the small amount of years ive been around. I mean it when I say ive been through it all, so feel free to shoot me a question or even just to spill your guts. my ears are wide open :)
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Age: 17
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im 20/f and i've never been on a date, not even one. however there's this friend who i would like to go on a date with. we're not that close but he's really friendly when we see each other. I don't wanna go on a date because i like him. i just wanna go on a real date for once. is it okay for a girl to ask for a date, or should i just be implying it? and how should i do that? im also reaaaaaaallly reaaaaaaally bad at flirting! plz help! (link)
By the way you stated it, im not sure if you like him as more than friends or not. I will still give you advice on how to go about this, but I would think that if it was a guy you truly had feelings for it would make your first date so much more special, so maybe you should wait.
I say the first way you should go about is, next time yall chill, to say something like 'aw, ive neverrrr been on a date before'. But try to work it into a conversation, or if yall see a couple walk by. That way he may get the hint & ask you himself.
If this doesnt work, THEN ask him yourself. Ask him if he wants to catch a movie sometime then get some icecream or something after. Offer to go dutch, which means splitting the cost (but hopefully he'll man up & pay for you).
I hope I helped, my inbox is open!
x sweeethoney


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Im kinda busy at this time of my life now and i dont want a relationship. but i guess i want somone to snuggle with at the end of the day (if you get what i mean). so this guy, he has a reputation of being non-committal (like i've seen him making out with a girl in a party and never calling back) and he's good looking so i dont think he's shy on demand. i feel like in our friendship, i just never give the vibe on anything more than friends. so will it be weird if i just go 'hey, you wanna go on a date? i've never been on a fun one.'




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