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okay, this is long but i really need help.
about 5 months ago, i started getting over friendly with a boy i was friends with. when we were together all we did was flirt and joke and i loved it. we started texting and i told him i liked him. things were good and he said he liked me back. we got together one night and it was amazing. i forgot about everyone around us and we spent the whole night together just kissing and cuddling. he told me he loved me after that but i thought he was just being silly. things after got bad as we could never meet and he always seemed so needy. i ended it a few times but we always got back. then i ended it for good 2 months ago. i thought i wasnt ready for anything he wanted. he took it hard and begged me to come back but i thought i was over him. then valentines we were at a disco. i was talking to him and just wanted to kiss him. I told him and he ignored me. at the end of the night i seen him kiss another girl, and it felt like a kick in the stomach. i was completely gutted. i told him i still liked him and he told me he didnt like me anymore. i was shocked it had come to that. i then started to constantly think about him, i realised i was madly in love with him and i started to fall out with him over nothing all the time. i felt bad and i knew he tried to be friends. he told me one night he always loved me and then told me he had a new girlfriend. i burst into tears and was very upset. things went down hill from there, he is a flirt and flirts with all my friends + me even though he has a girlfriend. he seems to not care anymore and doesnt really make an effort with me, but its breaking my heart and i dunno what to do. i just want to be with him and no one else :| (link)
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I felt like I had to answer this, first of all breathe its not the end of the world ... realise that everything happens for a reason .. maybe in the future you would be together. But at the moment I think its better you move on, honestly why love someone who doesn't love you back? It's a matter of fact, it may be lust but you never know. NEVERRR beg !! it makes the guy think your dying over him, personally i think you should be strong and i imagine your a beautiful girl, hide your pain never show what you feel its not worth it I think you smile.
If you loved him as much as you say you do you would be happy for him that he found someone else even if it's not you , think about it you can't be selfish with feelings... He may be with this girl to get you jelous but don't pau attention because at the end of the day your going to find someone so much better and that would love you the same way you do to them. It takes time to get over someone but you should keep your mind busy and never lose hope because life its short and you should enjoy it the way its supposed to be enjoyed. I understand you wanna be with him but the more you feel depressed the longer it's gonna take for you to get over him, you may think that what I'm saying is wrong but i'm no one to make your choices i'm here to help you and i've been through the same but when you think about the things that the person has done to hurt you it makes you get over them quicker. It was his loss if he didn't see what he had infront of his eyes.
Always say to yourself that your beautiful and that someone out there one day would love as much as you would love , but they would you for who you are not what you look like :) take care !
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