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I know I will probably get a lot of rude replies, but.. I feel it is the best for my child. I am currently going through a divorce, and of course there is a child involved. The thing is, I never wanted to have her, but because of my religion I was unable to get an abortion. During the time I've raised her, I could never love her. I did try with all my being, but I just could not love her. I am also concerned for her because of her father. I feel the reason I can't care about her is because I hate her father. I felt it may be best if I gave up on her and allowed her to live with him and his family. Is me being unable to love her a valid reason to be able to terminate my parental rights? (link)
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I understand what you are saying, but I think you need to think about the child in all of this. How would you like it if your Mum just turned around and said, actually I don't love you. And gave up on you? I believe that as her mum you have a right to her that you should stay there for her, regardless of your own feelings - thats what being a mum is about, for big issues and small issues.
Also, you said you hate the father, and that could be why? I know it'll be hard seeing bits of him in your child everyday, but you will overcome that. Look for things that remind you of you.
Just like with anyone you know (a work colleague, family friend etc.) and don't get on with, you still make the effort to be nice to their face - your child should be certainly no different to this. Make the effort to at least come across as loving.
Watch 'Remember Me' and see how upset the little girl is when she truly believes her dad doesn't like her.
Goodluck. X
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I have thought about her, and how she would feel. I have tried my hardest to be a parent, and love her as much as a mother should love her child, I truly did. But because of the circumstances on how she was conceived, I couldn't love her as much as I should have.
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