hello! ive lived a lot of life in the small amount of years ive been around. I mean it when I say ive been through it all, so feel free to shoot me a question or even just to spill your guts. my ears are wide open :)
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Theres this guy Ive been friends with for many months and been dating for over a month. Hes a frickin weirdo and my friends hate him. I come from a conservative New England town and he stands out in wifebeaters and skinny jeans. His friends are the same way-- weird. He goes to com college and never tried in high school, whereas I'm an overachieving senior heading to a competitive school next year. And hes not attractive. My friends are trying to convince me that he's not right for me at all-- and from what I've just said, its obvious to see why. But he's seriously one of the nicest people I've ever met, and the biggest thing is that we share the same morals. He doesnt drink or do drugs, and he believes in treating women with respect. He treats me better than my old boyfriend did. Should I pay attention to the superficial, surface things or just take him how he is? I mean, how many 18 year old guy will I be able to find who actually want to treat me and my body with respect? (link)
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you are being superficial, like the columnists said before me. so many girls would kill for a guy who treats them like gold, & a lot of us havent been that lucky. so to clearly state my obvious opinion, STAY WITH HIM as long as you have real feelings for him. dont just stay because hes a good guy.
you also need to ask your friends to respect your love life & your boyfriend & to stop talking badly about him. they arent being good friends, because true friends would see how well you are being treated & be happy for you, no matter what he looks like!
good luck
x sweeethoney
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You're absolutely right, thank you :)
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