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My girlfriend has been lying to me about smoking since we starting going out. I caught her about 6 months into it and a couple of times after that and she has tried but its not working out.
This question is for smokers
Would you be able to quit smoking for your boyfriend or girlfriend?
she says she loves me and wants to marry me but she cant do this even with my help it seems (link)
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quitting smoking is one of the hardest things ive ever tried to do, & yet ive still not accomplished it. some people can smoke a pack one day & then not a single cigarette the next, but for people like me, its very hard. when I dont smoke, I shake, cry, get angry, get chest, back, & joint pains, head aches, I feel lonely & depressed. its horrible. that being said, your girlfriend is probably someone like me. instead of hounding her about it, tell her she doesnt have to hide it & youre there to support her when SHES ready.
trying to force someone to quit is pointless & kind of cruel. you smoke when youre stressed, & youre puttin stress on her. she will be more succesful with a loving hand, not a pointed finger.
be supportive, not controlling.
x sweeethoney
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I guess it came across wrong in what i wrote in the question. I wasnt mad at her for smoking and mad at her because she didnt quit. I was mad because she never told me when she slipped up, even while living with me. I forgave her for the lieing and we're working together to get her to stop
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