Hello, call me Abby =] I'm eighteen and a senior in high school this year. I've always had great advice, I'm just not so great at following it =P Feel free to ask me anything, I'll do my best to give you an answer.
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I am married with 2 children. I had an affair with a black man and I am white. I have tried for three months to work on my marriage and had no contact with him. I miss him terribly but have not divorced my husband bc he is a good dad and good husband. Everyone says it would be hard for them to adjust to someone black. It has been 3 months since contact with this other man. The feelings are not going away and I am trying to do what is best for my kids. Am i doing the righ thing? What is your opinion? (link)
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First off, your decision shouldn't be based on race. A man is a good man no matter what color he is. Children are usually more accepting then any other age group.
If you are to leave your husband, it shouldn't be based on one guy. It should be based on the fact that you don't love your husband anymore, you can't make it work, and it's unhealthy for the whole family to keep the marriage going.
Don't leave your husband just to get with the black man, he may not be waiting for you or things may not work out.
I suggest couples counseling before making any rash decisions. Think about all the things you love about your husband and what made you fall for him in the first place. Give this heavy consideration.
Good luck,
-Abby
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This is the best advice I recieved! Thanks!
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