Ask Miranda
okay so I'm 17/ female
soo me and my ex have been talking for a long time we broke up last summer but we still talk as if we go out even when he has a girlfriend he still messes around with me.. which i think is wrong he has put me through hell and back in it again but its like i fell in love with him so i cant leave him alone we almost had sex last week but i got really scared i dont know if i should have sex with him because i dont want him to have everything. its really confusing should i just cut him off and not talk to him anymore? it might be kind of akward tho? i dont want any of his girlfriends coming up to me and asking me have i been messing with their man shaking my head what do i do ?
You need to cut him off and not talk to him anymore. It will be hard at first but it's what right! He can't have both of you. Don't be around him anymore your wasting your time with your ex when he's with another girl. What does that say? It's pretty much like he's using you if his girlfriend gets boring, they get in fights or just so he can feel better about himself. Don't let him treat you like this. He can't keep you no more. You both are ex's. You need to back off and let him and his girlfriend have a relationship. Because this guy's head isn't in the best place right now.
Be interested in other guys. Find someone who you like. So that you can start getting in a relationship with someone more mature then your ex and so you can have a real relationship. You want to be happy with someone who you can just be with him. Once your ex notices you left he might pull you back. But listen to me he had a chance to get back with you and he chose another girl. His loss not yours :)
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(Rating: 5) thank you this was really good advice kind of hard to take but im going to take it thanks