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Q: So here's my question... im a girl and im 16, but for some reason i am very nervous about doing things with this guy i like in school. We always talk about doing stuff and having sex. I asked this question before and i got an answer saying watch some porn videos... well i did and im still nervous because they are pro. How do I boost my seflesteem so i can actually do what i say i want to do? And im not looking for an answer that says do what's conftorable or if youre not ready dont do it. Im not looking for those answers. I want to do stuff with him but im scared, how do i become unscared?
You really dont become unscared. Since you are ready, you just have to do it. Then you won't be scared anymore. The first time I had sex, Me and my boyfriend had been together for 6 months and i was still really nervous about it. Its just something you learn while you go. Trust me, the guy has more to worry about than the girl anyways. You both will be nervous but it will pass

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