Hello, i'm Liz Udale! People call me Lu or Lulu because that's my initials (L.U)! I would love to think that i can help you with any worry you have! Don't be afraid to ask me! I won't be embarassed to answer, and i will try to be truthful, but nice at the same time! I'm only really here for advice, not like how does my ipod work or something, because i wouldn't have a clue how to fix it or anything lol :D Also my specialist subjects are just what i'm best at, but i will try to solve any questions! :D
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This is really short: I work with this great guy and we are really hitting it off, but here's the problem -- I work with him. I kind of promised myself I wouldn't date someone who I worked with just incase something didn't work out since I would still have to see him everyday. But I ALWAYS feel this way with guys, whether I work with them or not (I kind of have a wall up).
Everyone says I need to take chances to actually find love, should I? (link)
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I am going through the EXACT same thing right now - I work with this guy I like but I have a wall up. I think for me it's more a trust thing. I always anticipate that I will get hurt, because I do hurt easily.
I keep saying to myself that im not doing anything with him (and he has actually asked!!) because I work with him and that's not professional but I think that's just an excuse for me to hide behind. Don't let yourself fall into this trap too - ask yourself if working together is really the reason you are the way you are.
Another reason I'm not with this boy is that I know his past - he's a player, and quite a mean person when he wants to be. Ask yourself if the bad parts of him are outweighing the good, and if you think he could change. I suggest a pros and cons list, just make sure it's for your eyes only - you don't want to offend anyone!!
Finally, ask yourself why you have a wall up - if it's something like an ex cheated on you, ask yourself if this new guy would ever do something like that? Hope I was helpful, goodluck Hun! X
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Thanks, girl! I decided not to date this guy -- he's a good one, but working with him just isn't going to work if we date (in my case). I hope yours has worked out -- sounds like you probably are better off without him considering the bad parts of him.
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