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Q: Thank you so much. that really helped me. i really wishe di was like you. I have a job i have a family but i been so stressed out. now that my boyfriend has only been using me just to have sex. am 18 years old and he is 17 almost turning 18. i wished he loved me like i love him . he tells me he does , but he doesn't even call em or anything. so dissapointed. :( What hurts me the most is that i lost my virginity to him 2 years ago.
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I’m so glad you were able to find something valuable in my previous advice. What you are going through now is a tough one. So many people will come in and out of our lives. Some people will enrich our lives and we'll be better off to have known them, but some people will hurt and take advantage of us. It's inevitable. The trick is to find out what someone's true motivation is before we let them get close enough to make an impact on us. If hurtful people had a sign over their heads life would be so much simpler wouldn’t it? Try to look at this as a learning experience. After all, absolutely every experience in our lives, good or bad, is a life lesson. Take what you’ve learned from this current relationship and make a pact with yourself to be aware of the telltale signs that someone’s intentions might not be so sincere. You can’t turn back time unfortunately but you can change the way you react in future situations and relationships. Realize that you’re a valuable person worthy of real love. Don’t settle for anything less. If it means being without a relationship for a while then so be it. Give yourself time to heal and grieve and then move forward. I know a lot of what I’m saying is easier said than done. Trust me, I’ve been there. But there will be someone in your future who will love you for you and not what he can get from you. I hope in some small way this helps you.
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Thanks. I really appreciate it.
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Merry Meet!
I'm a mom of three grown children. I've been married, divorced and now recently remarried. I've had more than my fair share of life's hard knocks and have been knocked down more times than I can count, but still manage to get back up and go at life again. All this gives me tons of experience to draw upon when giving out my advice. I love people and honestly want to help. Please feel free to ask me questions directly if you like and I promise to answer each one of them.
Brightest Blessings to All!!
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Gender: Female Location: Texas Member Since: December 4, 2010 Answers: 136 Last Update: March 9, 2011 Visitors: 7965
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