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My boyfriend and I were supposed to hang out tonight, but he decided to go out with his friends instead. This is not the first time that hes decided his friends are more important than I am, nor will it be the last.
I called him after he told me we wouldn't be hanging out, and told him that I felt like i wasn't as important as his friends. He proceeded to tell me that he didn't want to deal with it right now and that he would talk to me later and hung up.
What did i do wrong?? There have been times where hes told me hes coming to pick me up and then decided he was to tired and i've walked the hour home from work at midnight. I just am so upset right now i feel like i put all the effort in the relationship and as soon as i get my hopes up about something, he changes plans and i'm just not in the picture anymore.
I'm afraid to approach him because i don't want him to blow up and just call our relationship off. But i'm afraid to leave it alone because i know its bad for me to be stewing about it and not letting it out.
What should i do?
Im 20 hes 28. We've been together for a year and a half.
Um. Well, first because you decided to mention the age factor, it shows that you might think its a problem subconsciously. Your boyfriend is 28, he really shouldn't have a problem with commitment. I mean, he's 28 and he's not getting any younger. You're gonna have to talk to him firmly if you want an answer because the last thing you want is for the anger and confusion to build up in your mind. Letting your mind come to false conclusions can also be detrimental to a relationship. Something is obviously wrong and you cannot have this miscommuication with each other if you want things to last.
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I mentioned it so you didnt think we were in highschool.
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