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Q: My boyfriend and I were supposed to hang out tonight, but he decided to go out with his friends instead. This is not the first time that hes decided his friends are more important than I am, nor will it be the last.

I called him after he told me we wouldn't be hanging out, and told him that I felt like i wasn't as important as his friends. He proceeded to tell me that he didn't want to deal with it right now and that he would talk to me later and hung up.

What did i do wrong?? There have been times where hes told me hes coming to pick me up and then decided he was to tired and i've walked the hour home from work at midnight. I just am so upset right now i feel like i put all the effort in the relationship and as soon as i get my hopes up about something, he changes plans and i'm just not in the picture anymore.

I'm afraid to approach him because i don't want him to blow up and just call our relationship off. But i'm afraid to leave it alone because i know its bad for me to be stewing about it and not letting it out.

What should i do?

Im 20 hes 28. We've been together for a year and a half.

I dont think your boyfriend is wanting to be in a comited relationship. It sounds like you are better off single. let him know you arent afrid to be alone that you dont need him and if he really loves you he will try his hardest to get back with you.

Okay so lets answer it the way you want to hear it.. He will change give him time to relize how much he cares about you. Hello you have been with him going on 2 years thats dumb he is immature and isnt going to grow up. You need to learn what a relationship is about I have seperated from my husband to give him time to think about what is more important his family or screwing around. he choose his family. You are scared that he wont choose you.

Rating: 3

No offense but that was some pretty immature advice. I'm not the kind of girl to break up with someone in hopes that they will "try to get back with me". If i break up with someone its forever.

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.