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Hello, call me Abby =] I'm eighteen and a senior in high school this year. I've always had great advice, I'm just not so great at following it =P Feel free to ask me anything, I'll do my best to give you an answer.
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So my boyfriend and I have sex, with no problem. But if we try and switch positions to where i'm on top, we have to stop cause it hurts. Many people do it, but i just can't. It really does hurt. Is there a way where I can be on top, and it won't hurt, or at least tell me why it does. Please help, Thanks. (link)
I'm sort of in the same boat. It doesn't hurt to be on top for me anymore, but it doesn't feel good either. It feels like a weird pressure and like its pressing on the wrong things, it just doesn't feel good at all!

I'm not sure what the deal is, but I suggest looking up some different positions and seeing what feels good. Maybe after time being on top will hurt less for you, thats usually what happens.

Good luck,

-Abby


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WARNING! Please go to the doctor! I went to the doctor and here is a lesson for the future: HPV which also causes genital warts and cancer isn't stopped by condoms at ALL and there is NO test for it in guys. So when you have sex with anyone, ever, you can get warts, cancer and infertility! Wonderful! Wish someone would have told me that. It stopped hurting and just felt like pressure before I went to the doctor and I waited too long. I am probably not going to had kids but because I went now I am probably going to live! Thank you! Now I know why people wait to get married before sex. I am so stupid.




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