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Q: There is this really cute boy that I am very attracted to. I am 16, female and of course he is male and 17. Now, I only started noticing this boy and falling for him because he looks at me an awful lot. One of those discreet glimpses but I know that he is looking, you knew when you feel eyes on you. Then he keeps doing it, like checking to see if I'm still there. My friend and I have lunch the same period and after, we wait at a corner and talk and she says basically everyday, he looks at me in passing. Almost to the extent of tripping over something because he was to busy paying attention to me. Now, reading this you are probably thinking he sooo likes me. However, we don't talk. We exchange glances. I would like to talk to him and get to know him but we run if complete different social circles and I don't see myself as being "his type." However, my friend had messaged him on facebook and said that she hears he's diggin me and that he apprach me and he said that he doesn't even know how the him liking me rumor that would start because he doesn't even know me at all and its the weirdest thing he's ever heard. From his cute glances to denying it all. What is up with him? I want him to talk to me first and stuff but if he doesn't, he doesn't really like me, right?

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Just think of something, anything you can say to him and do it. Who says the guy has to talk to the girl first? Those days are over, thankfully. What's the worst that can happen? Unless he's a real jerk he'll talk to you. It's alot easier to get an idea about how someone might think about you if you are actually talking. Bite the bullet and do it. Otherwise you'll keep wondering about the "what if's" and could possibly pass up a good thing. Hope this helps a bit! Good luck!

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