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So my boyfriend came over a week ago and we talked for about 3 hours...at first I was upset with him because I felt like we were growing apart and fighting a lot more about stupid things and he didn't want to talk to me and fix things. After a lot of tears, he finally broke through and told me how he felt. After that everything just flooded out from both of us and we made a huge 'break through' in our relationship. We both decided that even though we're in love, in the long run we probably weren't going to last. But I asked him if we were still going to try and he said yes of course...sooo we're still going out and things have been going better then ever since then but I was just wondering if this will be good for me. I love him and I love hanging out with him, but should I keep being with him if our personalities clash? We haven't gotten into any fights lately, but I'm sure we will eventually start again...I mean, yeah we fight a lot but the good times ALWAYS make up for the bad times...So what do you all think? Should I run this thing into the ground? Or might we actually have a chance? Any advice is good, thank you all so much. (link)
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Hey so I dont think you shuld give up on the relationship. Like me and my boyfriend have been going out since the 8th grade and were in 10th now. We had the same issues where we were just fighting and couldnt seem to get along. We even broke up for a period of time and it was some of the most painful experiences that ive ever encountered emotionally. We felt like we were so young and we were too serious. Like we were married and he just didnt want that anymore. We got too comfortable and forgot what brang us together in the first place. So just really think: Why do I love him? Why does he seem so special? And if we broke up do u think you would be terrified? It all depends on how important you are to each other. Any relationship can make it past this stage if both people are willing enough
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