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Hey my name is Bethany. I am in college majoring in psychology. Feel free to ask me a question, email, or IM me. I would love to hear from you.

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Here's my situation

I recently got into a long distance relationship
with someone who i met online he's 22 i'm 20 his name's Luke we get along great and we've got tons of things in common but here's the catch he's got a friend she's a girl her name's Keke and she's saying things like she wants to marry him & she told me she likes him she thinks were best friends
and aren't dating i'm scared he'll leave me and
end up going to her and i'll be left alone i feel like she's coming between us and i feel left out i
feel like he loves her more then me i really want this to work out between us and i'll be upset if it doesn't i'm unsure of what to do and how to approach this...

Advice please(:

If you and this guy are in an exclusive relationship why doesn't his friend know? Long distance relationships are hard enough without having to wonder if your boyfriend is only into you or not. I would just bite the bullet and confront him with the issue. Ask him if he likes the girl as more than a friend or not. If he says yes I would just go ahead and end the relationship. It is better to end things early and be upset sooner, than to be more invested in he relationship then you already are and get hurt more later. If he says he isn't then let him know you are going to tell his friend that you are in a relationship, or that he needs to tell her. If he isn't okay with then he is hiding things from you and once again you just need to end it. I know it's not fun but confrontation is the only way to solve this problem for good.
Good Luck

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