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There are two boys that treat me strangely. I want to know why. They're both the grade above me and are kinda clowns, but not the kind that everyone finds endearing. Some people love them, some want to punch them, ya know?

The weird stuff they do--

-Teasing me about things involving sex. One of them kept saying the weirdest things, and honestly I think it was to make me blush. Why? Because the redder I got, the happier he looked. Very, very awkward. The other does sometimes too, I think.. I don't quite understand the things he says, but my friends say it is. Either way, whenever I get confused he just laughs and says "nevermind."

-Acting like they want a high five, then pulling their hand back and laughing. I get annoyed and call them jerks. A couple minutes later they will force me to give them one.

-One always sings some kinda song to me and tries to scare me by hitting my desk when he goes by, the same one that tried to make me blush by talking about sex.

To be honest, these guys don't seem like the sincerest types on Earth, so I'm sure it isn't attraction. Why pick on ME, though? :/ The biggest compliment I've ever got on my looks from a guy was that I "am alright", so what the heck? Are they just getting a thrill from teasing someone who is admittedly rather sheltered?

Sorry that this is so long. Thank you very much though for reading all this way and, if you answer, for answering. :) I appreciate it a whole lot. (link)
I think they like you:P but I think because they know that you are younger they pick on you. I really don't know how to explain it. But like have you seen on movies where the older guy is in love with the younger girl and he kind of picks on her in a kinda flirty way or talking about love. Like in your place. So I think that's what they are doing. I must say that is unusual haha .But hey there is a good explanation! So instead of getting red joke back and I know sometimes you can't help blushing but hide it with comming right back with the joke or like what ever they they Are saying! So when you come back. If they like you they will probaly flirt back or If they were just picking on you to be mean they'll back off!! Haha I hope this helps good luck:)


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Haha, for some reason I find the ":P" face cute. Made me giggle. I'm so weird.

Thanks a lot for the answer. :) I might try what you said.. It's just that I really don't know much at all to even joke back. :/ Hmm..




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