Hey!!
I'm Lollipop. I'm 15, but I know more than you would think. I've had my share of crap, and now I'm here to answer questions. I orginally joined this site to GET advice, but I've found that I answer more questions than I ask. I have also found that I relate to almost every love life question. Let's just say I had a tough year... So, that's my area of expertise. The one thing that bugs me the most on this site are when people say you're too young to feel what you feel. Screw that. I don't think it matters if you're 15 or 51, you know what you feel. I don't know much about sex because I believe in waiting until marriage, but I know what it's like to be pressured. Ask me something, and I will give you an answer.
xoxo
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Age: 15
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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. Were both still in high school and in love. I know we're young, but we've been together for 13 months now and i honestly do love the kid to death. Unfortunately, I'm not too pleased right now :( He's an assshole. He smokes weed a lot, and cigs. When he does smoke, he never texts me back. It gets annoying. He never calls me, even when i ask. Well here's the problem.
He has a friend, who is a girl my age. They sit next to each other in a class and they talk a lot. She used to text him all the time with " ;)" or " ;p" They seem to flirt a lot. When i ask him about her, he'll say that he loves me and only wants me.. blah blah blah. In the halls during school we'll be walking and he'll talk to her in front of me when he knows it makes me really mad. She told me she doesn't like him but it seems like they do have something.... When we fight, talking it out gets rid of the problem but he never changes for the better. BTW, he always asks for sex or head. But i don't think he's using me considering he does spend a lot of money on me and can be such a sweet heart at times. Plus his friends tell me good things. Except they call me his bitch ? Not good! I need advice before i lose my head /:
Am i just jealous? Am I just over exaggerating? Do you think they like each other? Should i leave him or stay together? (link)
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Wow. I was in EXACTLY the same situation, and here's how. He was a jerk. Drank a lot. Told me he loved me, made me look him in the eye when he said it. Had a flirty relationship with a girl in his class. Everyone told me he had me whipped. Asked for head and sex. A lot. And heres what happened. I stayed with him. I loved him. I mever thought he would hurt me. I eventually caved and gave him head. He broke up with me four days later. Told me he only stayed in our 8 month relationship because he was waiting for that. Told me he only liked me when we were hooking up. I found out he told everyone how far we went and how he "had me on a leash" oh and the best part? Hooked up with the girl a day after. Could I have saved myself a lot of this hurt? Yeah. Could you? You decide.
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I gave him head 8 months into our relationship, he tried fingering me like a week into it, and i denied him. then he tried again, and I just gave in. We had sex 2 weeks after we got together? PATHETIC. I hate boys. But, we're still together and almost to 13 months! I don't know if he uses me or not. We fight a lot lately, but today we even talked about how he needs to change... and he's starting to! unless its for the other girl ? Who knows! But thanks! and yes we have basically the same issue, SINGLE IS THE WAY TO BE! no boy, no problems :)
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