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hey i really like my boyfriend but im to shy around him and he doesnt say anything but i know it bothers him and advice HELPP me thanks,
-Abby- (link)
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I was that way with my first boyfriend. Just think, he likes you for you. You should be comfortable to be yourself around him, or you should at least try to be, because if he's with you, he is with you for you and because he likes you. You might think if you act more like yourself around him, he might judge you or won't like you. I don't know what you might be thinking but if he ever did judge you because of who you are then he wasn't worth it in the first place right?
Anyway, I'm assuming you want to stop being shy. So number 1, you need to just relax. If you focus too much on what he's thinking then you are still going to be shy. You just need to make yourself comfortable around him.
I always get shy in the beginning of dating someone. I eventually got comfortable enough around him to be myself and not be shy.
The more you guys talk, the more comfortable you will be.
So I think the reason why you might be shy is because you aren't comfortable around him yet. Don't worry about it too much. Good luck!
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thanks you really helped like REALLY
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