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Im a 19 year old female and I've been dating this guy on and off for about 6 years now and it started in high school. He used to treat me so well and I loved him. I felt like this was the guy I was going to marry but then he just changed. He started to cheat on me and I would just look past it because I thought he loved me and he would never do that to me. After a while people started to realize that he was cheating on me so I felt stupid and we broke up. We kept getting back together over the period of time but then he met this new girl, Katie. I didn't really care at the time because I had a new awesome boyfriend who treated me way better than my old bf ever did. Then when my ex broke it off with his girlfriend katie, he came running back to me and I loved him so i dumped my boyfriend and went back to him. The same stuff was going on but i loved him so much that i just brushed it off. As i got older i realized how dumb i was being after he didnt come back to me like he always did. I wasn't going to wait around. So for these last 6 months we havent been together or have talked to eachother or anything. He and his gf Katie broke up and he added me on facebook. I thought that he was just trying to do it to make his gf mad because he always used to do that so i didnt answer him. He kept trying but i didnt answer. Then i seen him at a party and he managed to get back into my life. He started texting me after he left and since then we have started dating again. Everything was going so well and he was treating me like he never had before. I was so happy and i thought that he finally came around and realized i was the one he wanted to be with but lately things have been so different. We had an amazing New Years and he was so affectionate towards me. It was fabulous until it just changed one day. we were at a party and he was ignoring me and just be rude to me and saying really mean things. He finally said something just completely out of line and i just walked out of the party. I stayed outside of the garage because i heard him talking and he was talking sh*t about me! I couldnt believe it. Usually when he is mean to me he always fixes it. I thought that when he left that he would text me or something but he didnt. I told myself that i wasnt going to be upset about it but i just cant help it. I am so heartbroken. I thought that i was smarter and stronger than that and i let him back into my heart and he just completely broke me. I can't talk to any of my friends about it because they tell me i should have known better. I just really need someone to tell me something positive and what i should do. I feel so alone and upset. i could use somebody.
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