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18f. My boyfriend and I decided after four months, mutually that we should be friends. Hes the same age. Things had been going good, but then things would feel off and we would not see eachother for a while and then be happy when we were together again. I felt we needed more interesting things to do when we were together and he just seemed content. One day he seemed real frustrated at me and so I had brought up the idea of being friends for awhile, he said he agreed. His one guy friend said to me that he probably didn't want to break up and that he just agreed, which makes me wonder if he still has feelings. I don't have any close friends/family to talk to or hang out with and so all I can think about is him. I feel as if I lost the only person I had going for me, but I also feel it was kind of the right thing to do. I hope to find another guy, but every nice guy seems taken. I am a friendly, approachable person. What to do?

So pretty much you made him your whole world? I would just suggest getting social and going to parties and events or church activities or dances to get to know someone new or meet new friends. Don't always think he's going to be there for you. I wouldn't be friends with him. It just doesn't work out that good with ex's because you still have those feelings for them and trust me it's really awkward when you have a new boyfriend and your still friends with your ex. You just can't make an ex a good friend unless you feel comfortable with him as nothing more. But anyways, keep yourself a busy outgoing person and maybe you'll meet someone new. Try to be busy on saturday's and on the weekend so you don't always have to rely on your ex boyfriend. Hope you have fun :)

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(Rating: 5) No, I haven't made him my entire world. What you say makes a lot of sense about ex's though. Thanks :)


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