My husband and I are from another country.We have a 2 year old daughter.He is very good to her.When she was 4 months old ,we went to his house for a week long stay.His parents,especially his mom tried to harm her physically.As I was extremely vigilant,she could'nt do anything,but still was vocal about her wishes.She said that she wanted to burn her fingers,put hard solid foods like pickles,guavas and insert them into her throat with her fingers,took her to an angry dog of a neighbor and asked the neighbor to free the dog from its leash.I kept my baby in my arms and told the neighbors not to do it.She wanted to scare her in a variety of other forms.Also when baby rolled up her legs, she put her legs down saying that she was immodest ,though baby was wearing diaper and shorts.She suggested tying up baby with a rope.Also,she told mu husband that the baby is very ugly though many people in the USA call her pretty.After that we did not go there for a stay.We did visit her and she was the same.Now my husband wants to stay there for a night with our 2 year old.He gets angry when I try to reason out with him.WHAT SHOULD I DO?should I go with the stay or not?
PLEASE ADVICE
Your baby's care comes first before anything. If your husband is okay with his mother telling you she wants to physically harm your child then that's just nuts. Clearly, she's taking out her anger with you on your child who is completely innocent. Why don't you try talking to his parents and see what the problem they have with you is. They're using your child as a way to getting to you. If things don't reason out, just tell your husband that you're not going. Don't try to stop him from seeing his parents, after all, those are the people that rasied him. But you need to do what's best for your child.
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