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I want you to listen and I want you to read this thouroughly please.

I am 19 years old and I am in college. I have always been the good girl. Yeah I've kissed a few guys here and there maybe a makeout session or two. But I never did anything sexual. It wasn't until I got to college. I started seeing all the pretty girls get attention and not me. I consider myself to look okay. I am african american, tall and skinny. But I guess it's not enough for boys.

My freshmen year of college, I didn't do much. Around two boys gave me oral and that was it. Around the summer time before sophmore year, is when the mahem began. There was a boy I would say used me because I really liked him and he claimed he liked me. This is where my insecurity came in and basically I gave him head and he returned it. That was that. When I got to school I became a lil more sexual than my freshmen year. On a serious count since that summer I gave four boys head including that one from summer. I feel disgusting. Even though I'm a virgin, I still feel dirty. I read up online and I fit the characteristics of someone who holds onto her virginity so she thinks its okay to do other sexual things. What made it worse is I really regret one boy I gave head to. This boy was a good friend of the one in the summer. I did that when I cam back to school sophmore year.

I just need to know your opinions. I won't get offensive at all I just need some reassurance..thankyou.

girlllll you're in the clear. You are not not not a slut. Your insecurities are just making decisions for you, instead of that intelligent brain you have. Honestly, the one thing that will keep you from feeling regret afterwards is to only hook up with guys that you're monogamous with. (Dating/ 1/1) I know, I’m in college too. When your friends are doing it, you want to bring home a random cute boy too. But the issue is girls get attatched, and guys don’t. So after he gets what he wants, and doesn’t call again, you are left lonely and feeling unaccomplished.
I wont tell you to stop doing it, because guys hook up with randoms all the time. The only thing is, with girls it tends to cause emotional problems down the road. Maybe don’t go farther than make out for as long as you feel you need til you feel better about this year and everything that happened. You sound like a bright lady I’m sure you’ll get it all figured out :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks girl! i feel so much better after reading your comment! :)
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