Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
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Age: 21
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Well i've been with my boyfriend for four years, and i'm one of those girls who no matter how many times i hear that porn is okay i can't get it through my head and it still hurts, well i had learned to accept it as long as he did it when we weren't going to have sex, but i recently found out he does it like after or before we have sex i asked him not to because it bothers me and i caught him again, and after a while he admitted he had a problem and was addicted and was going to seek help, so i stumbled upon porn filters and i mentioned it to him and he said he wouldn't mind but i don't know how porn works with guys, will this cause him to want to do others girls now that he can't wack it to just the thought of others? cause i always researched how to accept your guy looking at porn and they always said " you should be happy he's trying to control it not doing the real thing" hes always looked at porn so i don't know what problems it's going to cause if i apply this filter. What do you guys think (link)
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If you don't trust your boyfriend why are you with him?
There is absolutely nothing wring with porn, and if I ever Installed something on my boyfriends computer like that he would leave me in a heartbeat.
Even with his consent its still completely wrong. You act like he wouldn't be able to watch porn without it. There is always phones and DVDs?!
You need to get over the problem with porn, or your never going to be even remotely comfortable with yourself.
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i am with him because everytime i try and leave him he begs me back because he says he cant live without me. and rather be with me and my insecurities then without me. and my boyfriend said it was fine because he said even he thought it was getting to a point where it was too much, and he said he would never even think bout paying for porn since he has financial problems if anything im just confused because some say its ok some say its not some say leave him others say stay, and i do have an insecurity problem and im trying to change it. thank you for your help:]
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