Hi My name is Lauren.Im attending college as an english major,and I hope to teach one day.Im a great writer,and I give great advice.My friends always come to me when they have problems.The only problem now is that I moved to Texas from Kansas,and I dont know anyone here.So I hoped I could at least help people who need someones advice.Im mostly good with relationship questions but feel free to ask me any thing.I will always answer your questions,and I will be honest.
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Age: 19
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I'm not going into detail because I would end up writing over 10000 words. Short story.. I really dislike my life. A lot is going on and i cry myself to sleep almost every night because i don't like my life right now. I'm a senior in high school and a girl. People are usually stressed about college and where they want to go etc. but I have that figured out. SO i guess thats alright since i already know my future. I'm just not happy...
I have a boyfriend. BEen going out for a few months and he's great. sometimes he gets on my nerves and irritates me and we have some fights. but other times he's there for me and he's the best boyfriend i've had. he really cares about me and whenever i'm in a bad mood he knows how to cheer me up. i dont get to seem him often outside of school because i'm involved with other activities and so is he. my bff is irritating me. lately we havent been on the same page and been fighting a lot about random crap. parents are getting more annoying. i'm 18 so i am pretty sure i have some freedom and independence but according to them i dont because i still live under their roof :( a lot of people i know get to do things like drive downtown and go to parties and hang out at peoples houses until midnight but my curfew is still at 9pm or even 8. they wont let me do certain things like go to a friends house they dont know. or sleepovers. or go to a concert. or go to a friends cabin. or drive outside of my town.. pretty much no life and living in a bubble.. to make things worse, i dont really have many friends. i mean, i have friends but they're the people who i say "hey whats up" to in the hallways and then dont talk much outside of school.
i just dont know what to do anymore. i really dont like my life and no matter what i do to change it.. i end up making things worse. i guess all im asking for is some advice on how to be happier and cheer me up? i dont have much time for myself so my options are limited. dont have a job which equals no money. parents keep me in a bubble life. i feel like i'm suffocating and just hate my life right now. please help. (link)
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Well to start off your parents keep you curfewed because your growing up and honestly there scared to let you go.Its not fair and its not right,but right befor I turned 18 my dad started craking down on me and setting weird rules that i hadnt had for quite some time.So it comes down to they just havnt accepted that your growing up and very soon you wont need them as much.Its hard to make them understand how you feel at this point.Hopfully your going to a college away from there or you will never get away.Are your parents not letting you have a job?because if thats it you need to try and talk to them about it.Instead of telling them you feel like your in a bubble tell them you think you need one because you need to learn more responsiblity.It should work tell them you just want it for extra money in college so you will have every thing you need.When there as controlling as they are its hard to find ways to do the things you want like party and socialize.Find a friend they know,or make on that is really good with parents that way she can be your aliby if you ever do want to get away.Other than that my best advice is dont be so focused on the negative right now,because soon you will be out in the world away from there controlling hands and able to live how you want.Just be carfull the world seems nice and easy but it really isnt.As for your best friend i know me and my bff are like a married cupple we fight alot but its like one min were arguing over somthing stupid and then all of a sudden were just laughing our butts off.If you guys arnt going to the same college or maybe you guys just feel like your about to be torn apart that could be what the minor irritating arguments are coming from.Just talk to her tell her how your feeling tell her you need her.If shes a good friend she will be there for you.
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