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so my boyfriend and i are becoming more and more sexually invloved. we really love each other. i am soo scared of becoming pregnant it's frightening. i don't wanna have a child at 15 or even think about it. yes, i am a virgin. i'm 5'2" and i weigh about 107 lbs. i want to get on birth control right away... i need to find an excuse for my mom to let me; i only get my period once a year. i've only every gotten it twice. once in jan 09 for a week and the second time in jan '10 for a week. now it is december '10. my mom says that she doesn't want me getting on any pills. idk why though but i needddd to prevent stuff....... help please any other good excuses??? (link)
Period regulation is the best reason I can think of to suggest it. I would approach this from a "I'm not sexually active, but I will be someday. I want to know what birth control I need to use and have experience with what it does to me. Now is a good time to start, in case one prescription has side effects I don't want to deal with and I want to switch. When the time comes, I'll be prepared" argument.

If that doesn't work, google planned parenthood and get a ride up to the one closest to where you live. See what help they can offer, they might be able to get you pills for like 9-12 bucks a month. Don't know if they need parental permission for that or not.

You're going to make the choices you're going to make, whether she likes it or not. Good on you for choosing to be safe first, even if she's trying to prevent it. Planned parenthood will have the best info on how to get around your mom legally so you can protect yourself.

Don't forget condoms. Even on birth control, use condoms.


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