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My name is Kaci && Im 18 years old. I know I am young, but I have been through somethings that have made me seem as if I am a lot more older than what I am. I love to help people. At my school, I am the person people come too regardless if they know me or not. Advice is what I do best. My strengths are relationships. Im always right when it comes to those, just not when it comes to my own, hahah. I may be young, but I promise you I will help anyone the best I can and I will not let you go through it alone. Im the type of person that likes to know what happens after I gave the advice, so don't be a stranger; Need Answers? Ask questions! *xoxo
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Ok, So... i have a large labia. it hangs outside of my outer labia. It looks like a purplish-peachy set of lips that can stretch really far but i have a boyfriend and ... he wants to finger me and i want him to. BUT i am so self conscious about my labia. My vagina is shaven, and does not smell bad at all. The only negative thing is my labia. Every time I don't let him go down on me or finger me he asks why. i just say i'm nervous cause i'm two years younger and i've never done that stuff before but he has. with his ex gf. he always says how his ex's vag smelled really bad and it was gross. so then that makes me self conscience and I never take off my underwear. My sister's make fun of it and call it "The penis." Sometimes even in front of him my sisters joke around and whisper "DID YOU TELL HIM BOUT YOUR PENIS YET?" and I don't think he ever hears them but on the phone i was about to tell him and he was like can i ask you an honest question?.... do you have a penis? i was like NO! and he always talks about how gross his ex gf's vagina was and he loves the fact that i tell him i shave mine.. he's one of those guys that actually care what the vagina looks like! i think that he figured out why i don't show him or let him down there because he's always like "You know that you can tell me anything, I won't care. You can tell me anything." He keeps reassuring if i'm hiding anything from him. ugh. How do i Tell him??? This can't go on forever he eventually is going to find out. My close guy friend told me not to mention it cause then he'll look for it. but my girl friend's think i should cause he'll probably be like wtf and shocked when he starts doing stuff to me. but he's one of those guy's that care about vagina's i think! so what do i do? or say? help me please thank you(: (link)
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Well, I know exactly what your going through. I'm going through the exact same thing. I have the exact same problem as you, except mine is just one is longer than the other, and I can pull it out too. My mom said I have a disease and I need to go get checked, but my bestfriend has the EXACT samee thing as me. Im very self concious about it especially around my boyfriendd because Im also afraid of him making fun of me, or leaving me for it. I've thought about it alot, and its not a big deal, NOT every vagina is alike. They are all different. Like the guy said, it just gives him more to nibble and suck on in oral sex. Plus, I've been ate out before, and it feels amazing. Just more pleasure for you. Sorry for telling you my life story, IM just tryin to hint around to telling you, its not as bad as we think it is. Its actually a plus, and not a negative thing. More pleasure for us. Just try not to over think it, or it'll ruin the chemistry between yall. He's not going to think of it as a big deal, and if he does than its just because he doesn't understand that EVERYONE is different. I'd rather have my vagina look the way it does, than have other things wrong with it; we are blessed. Just stay positive.
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