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Well i am 17 and i got my period when i was 14. My boobs haven't grown at all since then. I am a 32A (and thats still a little too big for me). I feel comfortable with my personality and body, except for the boobs. And i already talked to my mom about getting them "filled up" more. I was just wondering if you knew the disadvantages to that? And what problems could it cause? thanksss.

i wouldn't do it.

A. its fake.. why would you ever want to be "fake". same thing with tanning salons, plastic surgery, etc. its basically changing you... why would you ever want to change yourself? love you for WHO YOU ARE. boobs aren't everything.. who cares. if someone says "you have small boobs." tell them- "well i dont care. if you dont like them, don't look at them then" who really cares..? its boobs..

B. you're 17.. thats SO young still.. i'm 18 and i'm so confused on why people want to change who they are. especially so young..

C. yes there are a lot of disadvantages. i'm not totally sure but if you search on google "disadvantages of boob job" i'm sure you'll get PLENTY of results.

D. why would you want plastic crap infused in your body..? i'm all about organic/natural stuff. you might as well take carbon monoxide and inject it into your body. the chemicals in those are horrible for you... i even heard it leads to cancer sometimes. breast cancer and regular cancer.

so.. yeah. i mean, its your choice. but my opinon is that its a really ridiculous thing.. its stupid and pointless in my opinon. what good does it do for you? same thing with drugs and alochol.. how is it considered an advantage. yes big boobs gets you more guys, but have you considered what TYPE of guys it attracts..? guys that want sex pretty much. if you want a guy to LOVE YOU.. he will love you for who you are. not how big your boobs are. if a guy loves you because of your boobs size.. then he's an idiot who doesnt care about your feelings and only cares about sucking your tits. seriously. i've never heard of a honest marriage because the guy loves her boobs..

it doesn't do you any good. its fake and pointless. my opinon. but hey, your body. if you want to abuse it like that, go ahead. let me know when your 50 and wish you hadn't done it because of all the side effects and what not.

its like a tattoo.. you're gonna regret it because its like fashion. one day its considered cool and "hot".. then next few years it will be considered slutty and fake. tattoos are same concept. yes they are cool right now. but they are ink. PERMANENT. when you're 70, your skin is gonna wrinkle and you're gonna regret it. boobs jobs same concept. you're gonna regret it. best not to risk it.

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(Rating: 5) Yeah, i actually totally agree with you! I have always been insecure about them because of things i have been through with friends and other people. It makes me less confident about myself. I never really wanted to get a boob job (because i don't want to change who i am).
It was just a thought i wanted to experiment info on. But thanks a lot! I won't consider it again. :)
xoxo!
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