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A few days ago I met a friend of a friend. I had met him once before but we didn't really talk. This time we talked and I just felt like we connected in such a bizarre way. He asked me personal questions and told me that he admired my personality. We are also very similar because we are sometimes quiet and people see us as very sweet. I spent a few days in his company and felt these deep feelings. I've never connected to someone so quickly. He lives very far away and it's unlikely that we'll ever become close friends. It feels like I'm losing him and it hurts but at the same time I know I'll be fine. Could this be love? Is such a thing possible? Am I just exaggerating? (link)
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Its probably not love, because love is something that takes a long time to develop... but it does sound special. I don't think you're exaggerating, you're just experiencing a connection you've never felt before. It hurts that you can't spend time with him, but you can enjoy the very special relationship you are developing over Facebook and email and calling. There is a lot to be learned, even if you can't be in the same room together. Continue to keep in contact and enjoy being able to get to know someone special, even if its not exactly how you would like it to be.
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thank you. i appreciate the help :).
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