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so my x and i havent spoke for a few months, our past was quite hectic. at the begining we agreed no sex because i wasnt ready and he seemed fine but after some time we had i fight and broke up... after our break up we were sort of friends but he always gave me false hope and took advantage of the fact that i was ''inlove'' with him because he knew how i felt.. during this time he realisesd that i still wasnt goning to get in bed with him and he started acting funny ,i told him to leave me alone but he somehow kept coming back and we were back to sqaure 1.. until i got really tired of it and told him to leave me alone permently, he smsed a few times but i just ignored him... now i really want to talk to him even if its just to say hi bt im scared that im goging to look desparate... plz help???

you will not look desperate, BUT this guy doesnt deserve any kind of acknowledgement from you that he exists. its sick when guys take advantage of a girl like that. just stick to ignoring him for the meantime and im sure eventually youll meet a guy that treats you right. this advice is from someone who's been there. just stay strong. and even though you still care about him, remember how much of a jerk he is. it helps :)
remember, even snow white has to eat a poison apple before her prince comes :)

hope it helps

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(Rating: 5) thank you. it really makes sense what you are saying.. i guess i let my emotions run away... thanx
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