I'm Dominic Mayfield. I'm 6'1, green eyes, black hair. Around 200 lbs, thin but got meat on my bones. I've been through many situations in my life, which is why I can understand most other situations. Ask away and I'll help as best as I can.
E-mail: dmayfield87@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: MD
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Age: 23
Member Since: August 14, 2004
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15 - female
Some people would say i have everything i guess... I'm great in sports, and get every award. I'm pretty and I've gott a boyfriend. I'm on the 2nd best soccer team in the Nation for an Elite league.I'm a good singer, and am pretty much good at anything. I've got a best friend who is always there for me.
But I'm not even close to happy...
Since I'm new on my soccer team, I have no friends. And no one will talk to me or hang out with me... which just gets me sad and uncomfortable whenever we travel with all them. People over rate me. Since i get alot of guys, now that i have a boyfriend all my guy friends basically go away until I'm single again. I've lost many friends since it's "cheerleading season", and since some of my friends where cheerleaders, they are all in that posse of cheerleaders for awhile(which bumps others out). I dont have that much time to hang out with friends anyways cause of soccer...
And then i think harder and realize how unhappy i am... I may be pretty but...I'm unsatisfyed with my body. It's getting more muscular looking because of all these sports..I don't want to look that way. My hair doesnt fall quiet right. My face seems chubby...My lips are too small...nose is too big.
So i don't understand why people still "over rate" me...and Sometimes i just feel depressed...I don't really know what to do.
I know i havn't exacty proposed a question to you...But i really just need some advice here.
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Well heres one thing about the whole guys. If they only around you cause they want to be with you/use you. If they were your true friend, they would stay around even if you were taken. So dont think you're losing anything special if they go away, think of it as the next best thing.
If you have lost your friends, you need to find out a way to re-establish that friendship. If you can't, you need to find out why you lost your friends in the first place, and if its for a stupid reason, you need to find friends who will accept you in every way.
If you are unsatisfied with your body, then you need to figure out what you really want. Your looks...or your future. What is more important to you?
From what I gather, you're unhappy with yourself because you're not use to being isolated/alone. You're afraid of your looks getting out of control. If you have talent, and also a boyfriend who cares about you, then not only should you be proud of what you can do, but you can know that someone is with you and is willing to be with you through everything.
I suggest talking with your boyfriend. Get alot of conversations started up so you can be more socialized. It will help your mood alot.
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You're right, im not used to being alone and I honestly don't know how to pick between my looks or future. Because my looks do help me out aton and they make me feel good about myself. Yet, sports also help me feel good about myself and I'm successful. I just don't know how to pick...
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