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Okay so i'm having some problems with sex..let me explain (im so sorry if this ends up long but I really need some advice)
So me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and we are both 17.
A few months ago we decided we were ready to have sex,however it didn't go to plan it was awkward and there was issues with the condom and so on it just wasn't the right time. We stopped and said we would do it properly another time.
So we did and it went better except it didn't really feel like anything to me! It didnt even hurt..it wasnt pleasurable it just wasnt anything.
I figured it would take time the more we did it the better we would feel.
Everytime we have done it since it just doesnt feel like anything and it makes me so frustrated.
When I say it doesnt feel like anything I mean I can feel him inside me but thats about it.
Ive had orgasms from him touching me and fingering me and that feeling is amazing but I cant get it from sex?Its upsetting me because its making me feel like im dysfunctional. I have never actually physically "cum" either. Ive gotten what I assume is an orgasm just like this intense feeling all through my body. Recently I was away in england with my boyfriend and we were going to have sex when I just broke down and started crying. I wanted to tell him so many times before but I didn't want to upset him because I knew he would think it was all his fault which he did..when I told him. I know its my body though I mean whats wrong with me!? why can't I feel anything why havnt I been able to cum?is there any other girls with similar problems.. this is really worrying me that I will never be able to enjoy sex I feel like such a fail.. and I wan't to enjoy it for my boyfriend to I wan't it to be fun and special but so far my experiences with it have been indifferent.
Please help!
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I have read your problem and i understand you may be stressed so here is my solutions:
1)see your GP
2)get some toys
3)experiment
4)it may be somnthing to do with his "cum" (sperm)
5)goggle some womens experiences/problems
6)keep practising, you may find its just the begining you find uncomfotable, it may get better
I hope you find this infomation useful and I am happy to help you PERSONLY and if you have any problems inbox/message me.
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